This HAS to be a scam. Otherwise the story is just too sad for words. Who would "surprise" their bride with a cake and wedding planner? ("Will you marry me... next month? By the way, I hope you don't mind that I took the initiative to order you a cake and book a wedding planner...")
The short lead time and broken English sound all-too familiar from previous scams. What "advert?" And I don't understand the disconnect between the "from" name in the header and the name in the email.
On the plus side, he did spell "inquiry" right, and there is no initial mention of a credit card. BEWARE!
From: ajibola smith <email@example.com>
Date: Tue, 27 Jan 2009 11:34:16 -0800
I am Paul Donald ..I saw your advert and i try to check you out .. I will be getting married on the FEB 20, I love to know if you could bake a cake for me then and also looking for a wedding planner, want a surprise package for my bride.
I will be expecting your reply urgently.